There is a big difference between the person who gets great results and the person who gets average results. And it begins with the conversations in the space between their ears—with how they believe in themselves. When you start to believe in the gifts you have within you, you are already halfway to becoming great.
To do this, you must accept where you currently are along your journey and understand that if you are not happy, you have the power to change it. All you have to do is learn the necessary skills and put in the work. Breathing to center yourself is one of the key skills necessary to develop such a powerful belief in yourself that your mind-set won’t be shaken under even the most extreme challenging conditions.
Here’s a simple breathing exercise
The Importance of Breath + Meditation
Meditation is about clearing the mind of everything else—all the extraneous distractions, obsessions, doubts, and trifling matters that keep us from focusing (Join us for our live online 21-day New Year, New You meditation challenge and start your practice off right!). It’s something we need to do every morning when we wake up and every night before we go to bed (at least, I find my days more powerful and intentional when I do it morning and night). You live the day of a champion by beginning as one and ending as one.
The key to meditation is in the breath—to focus on your breathing and be aware of your breath. You want to unplug and simply breathe. Breathe in joy; breathe out stress. In joy, out stress. Allow yourself to feel connected to the world, to the universe, and, most important, to yourself. Anything that gets you disconnected from business, career, stress, and the rat race is great for you.
Under perceived pressure, we tend to hold our breath, and then we not only don’t have the oxygen to our system that we need, but also our muscle tension increases. Muscle tension is the number-one enemy in sports. If you’re a swimmer, you’re going to go slower. If you’re a pole-vaulter, you’re not going to jump as high. Deep breathing helps to clear our mind of stress and expectations, and it relaxes our body. I think it’s important to have either a meditation practice or, at the very least, to take a deep breath throughout the course of your day and notice whether you’re breathing easily and deeply.
15-Second Centering Breath Process
1. Breathe in through the nose if you can for a count of one, two, three, four, and five, expanding the belly.
2. Then hold it for a count of one and two.
3. Then breathe out through the mouth for a count of one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, and eight, releasing the air in the belly. Be prepared; this is a big breath. It’s not something you’re doing all day. This is just to reboot your breathing. But the key is the exhale. It’s a little bit longer than the inhale, and that’s where you get the relaxation response.
When we think about taking a deep breath, most of us just think about the inhale—taking that big inhalation. That’s actually the stressful part. Getting all that air out, that’s the relaxation part and really helps you to feel your best. You will be surprised how you feel if you do this before bed or before an important meeting or event. When we focus on our breathing instead of the things that stress us out or that we are afraid of, we don’t allow the stress or fears to creep in. Go ahead and try this exercise right now and repeat it for four cycles (1 minute in total).